If you are trying to figure out how to get your ex girlfriend back, there are several things that you need to consider. The main thing you need to concentrate on is making sure you do not appear anxious. You need to tell her how you feel and then step back and give her some space. What ever you do, do not smother her. If you show her that you can be patient and calm without all of the drama of the breakup, she will have a chance to ponder on the relationship. Finally, make sure you let her make the decision herself and not by your persuasion.