Christmas may be known as the season of happiness and joy but it can be a tough time for marriages and relationships. There is such a lot of pressure on us to have a good time and do things right that it can all lead to conflict/ Things are not helped by excessive drinking and spending far more time together than is usually the case.

anything that puts pressure on a relationship is going to challenge the strength of that relationship. If both partners agree completely on something that doesn’t usually cause a prolem but if you disgree then with everything else adding stress it is easy to blow your top and lose your cool.

If it happens take a step back. Give yourself a little time and space to think about your problems and see if you need to get marriage help. t may be that this was just a momentary difficulty and things are ok normally but it could also be a sign that things are not right and you both need to consider where things are headed in you marriage or relationship.