I have always worked very hard. When my husband was around we dreamed of being on a tropical paradise when we retired. I called him up, he had never remarried either. I talked to him for a while, and we realized we still loved each other, so we sold our houses through the local real estate agency, taupo real estate, and decided to go down and get remarried on a tropical island. We called the kids who were in utter shock about the whole thing, but agreed to come along anyway. So we were on a tropical island together after we retired.